This site is a work in progress, a place we can visit to remember Pat, together. As I bumble my way toward beginning a new phase of my own journey -- with Mom living in my/our hearts rather than in her body -- my hope is that it will help to be able to share various thoughts and stories in these pages, which will grow richer with time and different voices. It's not the same as being able to visit for a memorial in person, and I hope eventually we'll also manage to do that. But for now, this is what we can offer as a space for virtually gathering and sharing the stories that help us grieve and heal and celebrate a life well-lived.